Friday, February 27, 2009

Speak Baby Talk and Carry A Small Stick


And so it begins.  Titus is army-crawling 360s while lying on the floor and getting into anything within reach while cruising around in his walker.  Drew thinks that Titus has become bored with his brightly-colored, soft (safe) baby toys, and has moved on to more interesting items.  He wants to grab Mama & Baba's "toys" -- pens, books, camera, spoons, broom, paintbrushes -- anything that we're "playing" with.  He sneaks under tables and desks, trying to pull at phone cables and cords plugged into the walls.  He loves to pick up objects left on the coffee table.  One of his new walker-time favorites is ramming into a short stool, knocking over the bucket which sits on top.  Baba gets a kick out of placing the bucket on Titus' head.

We see this explorative spirit as a positive quality, inconvenient as it may be, and we try to use his curiosity for learning and new tactile experiences.  Titus is offered lots of non-toys which we think are safe.  But they don't always turn out to be baby-proof.  We let him play with some sticks (what boy doesn't enjoy a good whacking stick?) and he gave himself a nice welt on the cheek.  At least the mark was accompanied by a smile!




Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Foundations

Your thoughts are appreciated this week.  

It's the first week of classes, regular team meetings and tutoring, which means we're meeting teachers, tutors and classmates for the first time, and we're eager to initiate friendships!  Drew and I must adapt to shifts in our family responsibilities, as we are now students.  So --  it's time to build good foundations for the semester.  

These are specific things you could think of in the next weeks.  Thank you.

- Teamwork:  Health and synergism to do a good job here in Changsha (our teammates: Bisty, Ani, Emily, Portia)

- Our Marriage:  Adaptability and mutual service to one another as we figure out how to cover family responsibilities

- Our Contacts:  Our focus is teachers, tutors and classmates.  You can ask for receptive hearts in these people -- for friendship, and for sharing and studying the word.  Specifically, 

1) we are planning to have an American student over for dinner next week.  He is new to Changsha, a little lonely and culture-shocking.     

2) there's a Turkish couple who we also hope to have over for a meal.

3) Drew has a male teacher who seems to be eager for friendship.


- Housing Situation:  We meet with the landlord either tomorrow (Thursday) or Friday to discuss the rent situation.  He's not pleased that our agreement is for six months rather than twelve.  Of course we hope his heart will change.

- Titus:  You can feel free to ask for perfect health and happiness for him on a consistent basis!


Thanks so much,

Drew, Rachel & Titus


Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Rubber Ducky Sweater

Titus says that he loves and misses you!  But he says not to worry -- his adopted ai-yis (aunties) are giving him lots of love and attention here in Changsha.

Titus often wears layers of warm clothes since our inside temperatures are a bit chilly.  I thought you might like to see a sequence of pictures from play time.  He's wearing a cute rubber ducky sweater from Great Aunt Mary Kaye Addington, probably passed down through her seven boys!

"Hello my little friend"
"Watch this, Mom"
"First you bite his ear"
"Then you do a reversal and pin him to the floor, like Uncle Ethan"

Saturday, February 21, 2009

Learning to Cook Again

As the wife and mother, I feel that it is my duty to provide home-cooked meals for the family.  Back in the States it was easy to prepare creative and delicious food, but here I've felt handicapped in the kitchen.  

The obstacles:  Familiar spices, seasonings and sauces are unavailable.  It can take guts to buy raw meat (is that a pun?).  Drew just recently bought me a big toaster oven, but we lack baking pans.  

The advantages (aka things that we're so thankful for):  We've got two awesome gas burners, a wok and two pots.  Virtually any vegetable is readily accessible.  There's meat, cooking oil, soy sauce, flour, sugar, ketchup and red pepper flakes galore.  Our kitchen has a small fridge to keep food fresh.

I am feeling so much more encouraged after today!  My teammate Portia helped me to navigate the meat market, so I bought a couple chicken breasts.  I'm planning to make both American and Chinese food.  We feel thankful for the relative ease of enjoying nutritious meals here in our home.
 


(By the way, I'm waiting for a couple pictures from the mountain hike -- coming soon.)

-- Rachel for all

Friday, February 20, 2009

Team Intro

I want to introduce you to our team!  

First, let me pan out and mention that our organization has three teams in this city, Changsha:

1.  Teaching Team consisting of four single women, at a university east of the river.  One of these women is from Minnesota -- and I actually met her last summer.

2. Teaching Team consisting of two families and two single women at a university west of the river.  One family has three children, a boy age seven, girl age five and girl age three.  The other family has two kids, boy age eight and girl age six.  The Dad of this family is from Minnesota as well.

Our Team:  

3.  Student Team consisting of four single women and one family, with a baby boy age five months (that's us!).


From Left:

Bitsy, our team leader, is originally from Ohio and has been in China for six years.  She has lived in the northeast, out west, and now in Changsha.  She's been an English teacher and a student of Chinese -- and her Chinese is excellent.

Drew you know.

Portia is in her second year in China.  Last year she taught English in the same province (Hunan) and is now a student.  She is from South Dakota.

Rachel and Titus you know.

Ani is from Minnesota, which makes six of us in Changsha (way to represent!).  Ani has both taught and studied, and I believe that this is her third year in China and second year in Changsha.  She knows the city best.

Emily is also in her third year in China.  In August 09 she's getting married to Jesse, who is an English teacher in Wuhan city.  Delaware is her State-side home.  



This week we've done team building and business, including a lot of petitioning, together.  Drew and I are quite optimistic about the health of this team -- we're looking forward to a great semester together.  

In other news, Drew picked up his class books today, met some of his teachers, and we climbed a small mountain.  

Love, 

Rachel

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Rainy Day


Titus fell asleep and Drew put him down in the crib for a nap (on his back).  After a few minutes we heard baby noises -- not crying -- coming from his room.  We opened the door to this:


Mr. Mustachio.  Don't worry, he shaved it.  




Monday, February 16, 2009

Sunday + What's Going On

SUNDAY

I'm excited to tell you about our Sunday, which was a blast and an encouragement especially to me (Rachel).  We hosted the weekly fellowship meeting at our apartment -- which consists of music, a message and a time for giving thanks/making requests.  The children (only two this time) had a special class in Titus' bedroom, while all the adults met in our living room.  About twenty foreigners came over, all brothers and sisters, and including Koreans, Chinese Americans, and Indonesians.  What a joy to meet with these like-minded people!  I love having people over and I'm so thankful that we have a home which allows us to host.

After the meeting we all went out to dinner at the Dong-Bei restaurant, which serves northeastern China (aka Manchurian) food.  This restaurant is just a stone's throw from the gate to our apartment complex, so we frequent it often to eat-in or take out.  Last night's dinner was especially good and cost only 18 RMB (Chinese currency) per person -- I believe that's $2.60 USD.  

As you can see, Titus is really getting to know the servers.  When we go into eat, he gets passed from one delighted server to another...and I have no idea where he is for ten minutes or so.  He doesn't cry when he's with them!  I'm excited about the formation of friendships at this restaurant, all thanks to Titus.



WHAT'S GOING ON

Much of our time in the past week has been spent cleaning the filthy house and making it home (getting hot water, gas, bedding, pots, food, cleaning supplies, baby stuff, shower curtain, etc.).  Our teammates gave us a basic orientation of important locations in the city -- the university, language tutoring center, police station, coffee shop, hospital, bus stop, supermarkets, food shops, and bank.  We did some cultural training with our team leader, Bitsy.   

This week will hold team-building and some additional training.  Drew needs to have some medical exam, assessment test, and other paperwork done before beginning university courses next week.  Titus and I need to have our visas changed.  So that's what's going on.  

I am getting anxious about meeting those with whom we will have intentional relationships:  our teachers, tutors and classmates.

We appreciate your responses -- it's great to hear from you!  And we love you!

- Rachel

First Rice Cereal

Titus is now five months old and making new developments, including sleeping in his own room, waking up only once in the night, scooting around in a walker, rolling over without any coaching, and eating rice cereal.  These pictures are from his first bites.  Thanks Auntie Mandie for the spoons!  Although much of the cereal ended up on bib, pants, hands and face -- I think Titus swallowed a couple tablespoons.






Saturday, February 14, 2009

A Valentine for You

This is our heart-shaped pink Valentine for you!  

"Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude.  It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth.  Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."

I feel convicted when I read this passage, especially about how I fail to love our Father and my husband -- the two people to whom I say "I love you" the most -- and the two whom I most frequently fail to love. 

Can I make a request?  Would you ask our Father to help Drew and I as we try to strengthen our marriage and love each other more like that quote above?  

Happy Valentines Day from Drew, Rachel & Titus



These pictures were taken during our layover in Hong Kong.

Friday, February 13, 2009

Bath

We've been here for a week and still our water heater isn't up and running -- so we boiled water on the stove using a teapot and a wok -- in order to bathe Titus.  Our bathroom doesn't have a tub, so we bought Titus a little plastic one that says "Swimming".  We hope you enjoy the pictures as much as Titus enjoyed his bath!

- Drew & Rach




Thursday, February 12, 2009

Views

Do you want to take a look at our neighborhood?  Our "complex", consisting of three apartment buildings, is located a block from the river and walking-distance from the university where Drew will attend classes.  

Here you are at the front gate, opening to Ai Min Lu, our street.  Across from the gate are several hole-in-the-wall vendors of fruit, hot foods and daily-use items such as toilet paper -- very convenient!  Portable vendors also set up tarps or carts to peddle fresh fruits and vegetables.  The small road is busy with students on foot, motorbikes, and small cars.

Oh yeah, and friendly Uncle Zhang guards the gate.  He knows everyone and we like him already.


Now you're inside the gate and to the left, that is, north.  We'll walk down this street to our apartment.  Our regional coordinator, team leader, and four teammates live in this complex as well.  Foreigners are concentrated in this complex, but of course there are overwhelmingly more Chinese.  That's a good thing.


Now, see the barred window second from the bottom, on the right-hand side?  That's our master bedroom.  The window just to it's left is Titus' room.  Windows have bars for a couple reasons: 1) to keep out theives; 2) to keep drying clothes from blowing away.  At least -- that's what I understand the purpose to be.


Come up the stairs!  Just a short walk...we're only on the second floor.  Did you know that "four" is unlucky in Chinese (sort of the equivalent of 13 in north American culture).  The word four, si, sounds like the word for death.  Some think it could be unlucky to live on the fourth floor, or have a phone number with fours, whatever.  


We live in apartment 204!  Our next-door neighbor is Jeff, an American from Colorado.  We are looking forward to becoming friends with this guy.  This afternoon I also meet a Chinese woman who lives all the way up on the sixth floor of our stairwell.  Our resolve is to befriend all the neighbors.  So far we're buddies with the guy who collects and sorts our trash, Uncle Zhang, the building manager Mrs. Ti, two teammates (others are in Thailand), and a couple Indonesian girls.


Now you're inside, looking straight out from our master bedroom window.


Well it actually looks like this because of the bars.


Look left (east):  Over the wall is a busy highway, and past that a river walkway and the river which you can't really see.


Look right (west):  The gate out to our street, Ai Min Lu, and the vendors selling fruit and such. 
 

Now you're looking north, out our living room window, to the backside of our apartment building.  Since our building forms the northern boundary to the apartment complex, all you see is actually outside the parameters.  The building you see there is filled with several businesses, open to the busy street on the other side.  A hair salon is directly across from us, so we can see posters of "Nexxus" hair models and women walking around with towels on head.


Looking right (east) to the highway and the river.  I know, it's hard to make out anything with those bars!


The same view with no bars.  (I just stuck the camera through them.)


Now you can see to the left (west).  


Today we met with the landlord and his wife, a cordial couple.  There was some kind of miscommunication (yet to be sorted out) and basically, the landlord and his wife were not completely satisfied that our lease is only for six months; they prefer twelve.  That is, eviction is/was a concern.  I think the likelihood is small, but it's there.  

After experiencing the fear of being kicked out I have come to appreciate our home.  I was thankful for a place to stay... but all I could think about before was the unceasing noise and layers of grime.  My attitude has changed.  This is a good home, a very good home.  

I do ask you to lift up the possibility of needing to move.  Lift up the landlord and his wife.  

Goodnight, and love,

Rachel, Drew & Titus

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Walker Bliss

Good morning!  (Or evening for you?)

I believe US doctors discourage the use of walkers, as they pose risk for falls.  But like I told my Dad...we're in China, and heck, we can't even use a car seat anymore (took awhile for me to get over this but I've accepted it).  

So anyway, Titus really needed a clean place to sit up and play.  The first time he tried it out, he loved it!  "Gleeful" is how I'd describe his reaction!

I'm working on collecting photos of our neighborhood, so hopefully I'll have that post up later today.  'Til then...

love, Rachel

Flying Baby

Fifteen hours of fun, fun, fun on a big airplane!



Hong Kong (Xianggang)

During our 8 hour layover in Hong Kong, we decided to see the sights on the ferry.  Check out the map below: we went from Tsim Sha Tsui to Central to Hung Hom to Wan Chai and then back to Tsim Sha Tsui.  It was pretty fun.  Check out the pics!








- Drew