Friday, September 30, 2011

Justice Rolls

Let justice roll on like a river; righteousness like a never-ending stream
- Amos



Justice is doing what's right and treating human beings as people of inherent value. Here we have darling Jonathon, cast aside and presumed as-good-as-dead, then spoken for, defended and nurtured. Justice rolls over Jonathon.


Jonathon said goodbye to his wonderful nannies and nurse Lyn at the Butterfly Home and came home to a new Daddy, Mommy, big brother Titus and little brother Mike. These first two days he is adapting marvelously well.

I've been sharing his story in fragments. Please come back again to read Jonathon's story in its entirety, and 'til then enjoy a few pictures from Jon's homecoming day, which was our 4th wedding anniversary.






This lullaby for Jonathon came out of nowhere. The music you hear on the slideshow was the first take, not all the lyrics formed, tryin to plunk out a tune on the guitar. 


Let justice roll like a river over you
righteousness never fail to fall on you
Cast aside
no one saw you
Mercy's here now
and we're holding you

Let justice roll like a river over you
righteousness never fail to follow you
Silenced
no one heard you
Mercy's here now
and we're singing over you

Mercy's here now 
and we're singing over you

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

MBA China

Hey everyone, it's Drew writing tonight.

For the past two years I was an English teacher.




Now I'm a student, as I started a MBA at Central South University in Changsha.  

  • Class is Monday through Friday 8:30 to 5:30.  Each day of the week is a different course.  Each course lasts about six weeks.  
  • I am fortunate to have a scholarship that covers tuition and apartment rent for three years.
  • There are 25 students in my class; 8 are foreigners (3 Americans). 
  • All the lectures, discussion and course materials are in Chinese.








Some interesting differences and observations so far.

1) Paying attention: during classes, we don't have to pay very close attention to what the teacher is talking about.  Our class tech guy brings his wireless router to class everyday so we can all chat on qq (Chinese IM), buy things online and play online games during class.  Other common behaviors include sleeping, talking quietly on the phone and zoning out.

2) Testing: I think that all tests are going to be open book, take home essay tests.

3) The foreign disadvantage: Out of the 8 foreign students in our class, only myself and one other foreign guy understand the lectures and are able to participate in class discussions (So what do the others do for grades? who knows.)

4) After the last lecture of each course, our class treats the professor to a nice dinner as a way of showing our appreciation for his instruction and getting a little extra help for our grades.  For this semester, one dinner down and eleven to go.

5) Degree of difficulty: As with most higher education degrees in China, it is difficult to enter the program (admittance is based on a standardized test and work experience), but easy to complete the degree if you are present in classes and pay your tuition.

6) Classmate relationships:  All my classes are with the same group of 25 students for the next two years -- relationships are very close.

7) Advisor: Another American student and I have the privilege of being advised by the semi-famous dean of our school Chen Xiaohong.  She is extremely busy so I don't expect to spend a lot of time under her tutelage but the connection could be advantageous. 

8) Teacher's curiosity: As one of the two foreigners who can speak understandable Chinese and because I pay close attention during lectures, my professors are curious and frequently ask me what I think about a range of topics.

9) Family: Going a little bit against the norm of Chinese professional culture, Rach and the kids are participating in class activities and outings like dinners.  Everybody loves having them around.  

10) Integration=Influence: I am so happy to be where I am.  I love the people.  I love the language.  I love the culture.  What vantage point could be be better?


-- Drew

p.s. Here are those pictures of classmates and the classroom.





Thursday, September 22, 2011

Jonny Comes to Play









Jonathon was brave! Fit in very well. Titus was an excellent big-brother, facilitating the circulation of toys. Michael was possessive of Mommy but he will adjust. 

We are shooting for a September 29th homecoming date for Jon. 


This is sort of unrelated -- we had safety guards installed on our sixth-story windows. Who knew the working men also provided childcare service?

Monday, September 19, 2011

My BIIIG Birthday


Sept. 14th we celebrated our boy's BIG 3rd birthday. All week Titus was saying "It's my BIIIG Birthday." Titus is a cool guy who keeps us laughing. He loves reading books and gets really jazzed about vanilla ice cream and Wallace & Grommit movies. For his birthday he received some great presents but his favorite was a little harmonica!








I baked a dilapidated pitiable cake for Titus' class. The good news is you can play it off like 'ooo this is an American birthday cake' so they mistake the awfulness for a unique cultural experience.






The other day Titus happened across an awesome power-wheels car. If Titus is rude we say 'You didn't use kind words so you can't have it.' Knowing he had one shot, Titus thought carefully, then spoke slowly and clearly.
T: Daddy... may I... please... have that one... please?


We reward (bribe?) Titus with ice cream if he eats his supper all gone. Our family was sharing M&Ms...
T: Where's the M&Ms? 
D: Mommy ate them all gone. 
T: (so happy) Mommy! Now you can have ice cream!


R: Titus, are you ready to start school next week? 
T: ...? ...No. 
R: Why not? 
T: Because I LOVE YOU!


Folks, please. This last one is sweet and innocent, don't take it any other way.
T: What's this?  
R: Your scrotum. 
T: Scrotum? ...Mommy, there's three balls in there!
(counting error, not anatomical anomaly)


Titus keeps us laughing (and sometimes, irked!) but like I said he's a really cool kid. The terrible twos have passed and you know? It wasn't terrible.

Saturday, September 17, 2011

607

607 has been our apartment for two months now. It came with dirty plastery walls, exposed electrical wiring, a jumbled mass of the landlord's furniture, dust and must. After some large and small repairs it's feeling really homey.

Take a look around while it's still clean. This won't last.


Living Area
chat w/friends. eat snacks. read books. play guitar. sip wine-n-beer.




Dining Area and Hall 
chow down. throw food. spill milk.




Study
skype. playdough. study chinese. read bloomberg news (drew).



Bathroom 
all the usual.



Kitchen
brew coffee (drew). cook (rach). clean (drew). kill cockroaches (yeah, drew again).



Boys' Bedroom
blocks. cars. trains. diapers. wrastlin. snoozin.


 


Our Bedroom
pass out. zzzzzzzz.




Walking around the house -- lots more to see, plus me jabbering -- I welcome you watch when you have 3 minutes and 24 seconds to spare. Features a cute baby, too. And uh please don't pause it on the mirror shot of me in my pajamas, ok? Thanks!



Monday, September 12, 2011

Jonathon


Introducing... Jonathon

That's all I have for you today, his English name which was given by a Butterfly House helper when he first arrived from the orphanage. We call him by his Chinese name as well.

Jonathon is a very special name because Drew's dad is also Jonathan, an he's compassionate towards the fatherless. I think the story goes that his family visited an orphanage in South Korea when he 12 which gave him a vision to adopt two daughters when he grew up and became a daddy.





Jonathon means Given by God